Resistence is Futile

OK, so I finally, finally, finally gave in.  I bought a GPS for this trip.  I’ve traveled across country by car many, many times.  Early in life with my parents, then again in my 20′s when I moved from FL to LA, a few more times for a few more reasons and again a few years back on a journey to speak at colleges across the country about The Business of Show.  This time it’s to build the Act Outside the Box brand on the west coast.

And always with a map.  And before the last time, without a cell phone.

My friends and other well wishers for my journey said “What? You don’t have a GPS?”  To me it felt like I was going in to outer space or something.  Come on, I-40 is fairly plain and simple.  Hard to get lost.

But I’m one of those folks that prefer to do things the old fashioned way I guess.  I like to use my wits and brain and intention and attention.  Heck, I don’t even use a calculator to balance my checkbook!

Buuuutttt, I gave in.  In Staples the week before I left and with a giant coupon in hand, I bought a Garmin (I’ve named her Sally the Sat Nav) and you know what?  I LOVE her!  She speaks in soothing tones and gives me little updates along the way.

Sometimes it IS better to stop resisting.  Sometimes it’s better to go with the flow.  But I still like knowing in the back of my mind that I can get there with a map!  Lisa Gold

Segmented Traveling/Thinking

Good morning all.  I left Charlotte, NC on Thursday around noon saying goodbye to my long time friend Cindy.  We had a lovely few days together catching up on old times and creating new memories.  Though we have definitely grown in different ways over the last 35 years, there’s still something special about being with someone who “knew you when” and continues to keep you in their lives.

The somewhat comparatively short trek to Cooksville, TN was so beautiful and I traveled mainly with no sound in the car.  No music and no “University on wheels”, my favorite way to learn and ponder as I generally listen to mentors on business and inspirational leaders.  This segment was just to take in the beauty of the Great Smokey Mountains.

I had the pleasure of staying at the mountain home of my friends, The Huber Marionettes, otherwise known as David and Phillip.  Phillip is currently in Michigan filming OZ the Great and Powerful starring James Franco, Michelle Williams, Zach Braff, Mila Kunis and a cast of hundreds really.  Phillip is a great artist having created and performed characters in Busker Alley on Broadway and the film Being John Malkovich.  His partner and business manager David, is a very tall, very funny and equally talented guy who, spending this segment of time was most pleasurable, as we watched Burlesque and ate pizza.  And oh yes, had wine…plenty of wine (my favorite dish!)

730 miles on the road has brought me here, to Shawnee, OK.  I picked it because of the name of the town!  My very first job in the greater NY area was in Fiddler on the Roof at the Shawnee Playhouse in the Poconos.

So as I consider the segments of my life, like the segments of my travel across the country, I’m struck by how much several of the actors I work with are in such a hurry to “get there”.  Cause once you’re “there”, along comes another segment.  Why is it that we can’t enjoy the journey?

Even as I spoke of the two hour traffic jam, there was construction and lane closures along this last segment.  There will always be and obstacle to slow us down and perhaps that’s the beauty of it.  The universe is slowing us down to take the opportunity to enjoy, observe and BE with our segments of time.

So that’s my random musing for the day.  Off now to travel along I-40 to Albuquerque, NM, a supposed 9 hour segment.  I’m excited to see what’s in store, no matter how long it takes really!  Lisa Gold

Sunset in Charlotte

As I leave Charlotte, NC this morning I wanted to share this glorius picture I took outside of Wal-Mart last night.  Getting here on Monday night took about 3 hours longer than expected because of what?  An obstacle of course.  As I often teach in my CEO course, the best laid plans also need to include the certainty, not possibility, of obstacles. 

A traffic jam outside of Richmond, VA had me sitting at a standstill for over 2 hours.  When I did get to move at a rate of 2 to 3 miles per hour I got excited.  So why relay all of this to you here?  Because it wasn’t a problem.  I had prepared myself for things to get in the way.  I had snacks, great CD’s and took some mental inventory during the time I was delayed.

It seems to me that perspective is the key to life and as I spent yesterday in the rainy, and as my friend Cindy would say dreary day, I was rewarded for keeping my thoughts and my general outlook on life positive.  After buying a special dog food at the end of my visit here with my friend, who I’ve known for 35 years, I walked out of the store and in to this beauty.  I stood there transfixed at the wonder of it all.

The next time you see something as beautiful as this, take a moment to reflect on all that is good in your life.  You’ll certainly have obstacles, but no problems.  Lisa Gold

Best Laid Plans and Armani’s 16th Birthday

So this is it!  Last night I pulled out of my parking space in front of my apartment 4 hours later than planned, to start my big adventure driving across the country to Los Angeles.  My car is packed to the gills with only what I think will be needed for the next 6 months and of course, my most precious (hate to say possessions, cause they’re not possessions) furry children.  As I write this, Armani is celebrating his 16th birthday today.  We’re off to Charlotte, NC, again a few hours later than planned, but heck…as I’ve taught many in my CEO workshop, a planned 37 minutes usually takes an hour.

Give your career that extra time too.  Why be in such a hurry?  Enjoy the ride and follow along with me as I journey “outside my own box” to bring the Business of Show to the west coast.

Thanks for all of the good vibes and I’ll see you soon.  Lisa

P.S.  I’d love to hear some stories about your road trips, either to the Big Apple or the Big Orange.  How did you get here?